If we focus on the attributes we admire in others, we can find them in ourselves, too - if only in small ways. (You wouldn't recognize it in someone else if it wasn't in you, too. That's a fact.)
If we focus on the acts, we can find the times we stepped up in the past, faced our fears, and overcame challenges with benefit to all.
Once we spot them in ourselves, we can use them. We can build upon them, strengthen them, and expand them.
And become everyday heroes for others, too.